Domo Arigato, Mr. Roboto

This was a very special trip for us. We had the opportunity to travel to Tokyo, Japan and stay there for a whole month while my husband was working there. This was a major trip for us and for me. As you know, my husband travels ahead of us and so I'm usually travelling with my kids alone. Was I nervous? Yes! My only thought was how in the world do I keep them occupied for a 12 hours flight!!!

Well, first things first. I had to book a flight. I have had many friends and family members who have flown to the Far East via United. After doing my research, which means "asking around" for opinions, it was determined that if we were to fly transcontinental, go with an international airline company. It was unanimous that the "other" airlines were better in service and comfort. Now, I'm not trying to knock down the adage, "Go American all the way", but when it comes to comfort and service for a long flight and by MYSELF with my kids, I had to go with the foreign airline. The recommendations were: JAL, Singapore Air, or Cathay Airlines. Since I didn't want any layover, we chose JAL. I am SO happy we went with JAL (Japan Airline)!!!! When we arrived at the airport, JAL's employees saw that I had children and they immediately opened another check-in desk just for us and took us right away. We had NO WAIT!!! I was thrilled as I had a stroller/carseat, carry-ons, luggage (large since we were away for the month), and my other child holding my hand. It was crazy-making. However, their service was so impeccable it eased my nerves. They noticed I checked off that my children were allergic to nuts. They asked how much and sat us accordingly. Apparently, some children are so allergic to nuts that an open bag of nuts next to them will send the poor child to an anaphylactic shock. Fortunately, my children aren't that bad, but the employees were rearranging the seating to insure safety for my children as well as for them (I highly doubt they wanted an incident up in the air).

Our hotel was already set up for us due to my husband's work. This was nice as I typically arrange that as well.We stayed at the Capitol Tokyu Hotel. It was very nice and as extravagant as it was, it was small. I think this is very typical of Japan and of course, we Americans are used to space. Nonetheless, it was very, very nice. They knew I had a baby with me so they set up the crib in the room for us as well. There was always hot water available to us to make tea. We had a little refrigerator which is always nice. There is an outdoor pool which was really great since we were there in July and it's very hot and humid in Tokyo this time of year. Here is something that I just found out about the hotel....it's being remodeled and will be open in the Fall 2010. This hotel is centrally located in the Akasaka area near the Prime Minister's Official Residence. From the hotel lobby it's directly across the street from the subway/trains. Remember, the trains are ON TIME 99% of the time. If you miss one, have no fear, another one is coming along in a few minutes. The transportation there is extremely efficient and CLEAN.

My next step after booking our flights was to research the places that are children friendly and family-oriented. One of the books I really enjoyed and was most useful was called Kids' Trips in Tokyo.
We went to a lot of places this book suggested and they were all great!!!! We also learned some of the cultural nuances i.e. don't eat and walk (kids can up to a certain age; I don't know what that is, but you use your best judgment), don't blow your nose in public, take a small wet towel and put it in a plastic bag that can be re-used as your "wet wipe" for the day. There are a lot more, but it felt good to fit into the culture AND get a really good feel for how people live day to day.

One of our memorable stops was a day at Kamakura. It's an hour train ride from Tokyo. Definitely a place where you would want to bring your stroller. The strollers aren't great for the hikes up the steps, but I had a Baby Bjorn and my husband had the hiking pack where he could carry our youngest. We would just park the strollers in the stroller parking area and hike up. Our oldest did not tire out. He was so excited to see all the views and met so many other kids, that he didn't get tired. This town had ocean views, temples, and beautiful green rolling hills. The Kid Trips in Tokyo book gave us plenty to see without having to go temple to temple which would have bored our kids. We stopped at the Great Buddha. This place is astounding! The Great Buddha was completed in 1252. The statue ranks as Japan's second-largest bronze Buddha. It weighs 124,478 kilograms, stands 11.25 meters high. It is truly awe-inspiring.

After the Great Buddha, we went on to Hasedera, one of easter Japan's most popular temples, that houses an ancient gilded Kannon. Our oldest met another boy and they became fast hiking friends meandering through the temple and it's views of the ocean and valley.

Kamakura's main sopping street has a lot of restaurants, coffee shops, boutiques, and candy stores. Everything is neatly wrapped and beautiful. Even when cashier bags your treasures, they are beautifully wrapped. Very fun!

Stay tuned for our next day trip in Tokyo!

NY, NY part cinq

A part of our City Pass was to see the Empire State Building. It was a glorious day and so we headed to Chinatown for some Dim Sum and then quickly went over to the Empire State Building. It was great to have our City Pass because we, once again, went to a shorter line; however, it was still long wait. So, you can imagine what the other line must have been like. It's become such a tourist trap with the pictures you are sort of forced to take because it's a part of the line....I know, silly, eh? This is the kind of place where they show you the pictures at the end of the tour.

Once we got through all of that and made our way up, it was busy and beautiful. The sites were gorgeous and we also had the opportunity to get the audio tour as part of our City Pass. The kids were able to re-cap from our trip on the previous day and see Staten Island, Verrazano-Narrows Bridge to the Washington Bridge and beyond. The audio tour was fascinating and definitely worth it. The last time I was at the Empire State Bldg. it was at night. I thought it was just as beautiful as it was during the day. A lot less people, but mind you I was up there during the colder months. I also bumped into Seal, one of my favorite singers, who was cuddling up to a tennis star (obviously, this is all pre-Klum).

By the time we were done with the Empire State Building, it was late afternoon and getting close to dinner. The kids were hungry so off we went to a really fun restaurant for the kids. This place is called Mars 2112. It's a space-themed restaurant with a little "ride" before you get to the restaurant. The wait staff were all aliens, there was a little video game room, and the decor was interesting as well. The food was okay. It's a place where the kids enjoy the atmosphere and the adults live vicariously through them. Would we go there again? Probably not, but a good first timer place. It is very similar to the Rainforest Cafe just a different theme. I think the Rainforest Cafe has better food. Another place that was suggested to us was the Jekyll and Hyde Restaurant, but after looking at the website and its description we decided it was a little too scary for our little ones. Definitely a place to check out for adults!

Once again we had a full day and the kids were ready to rest.

Here are some other places that we never got to, but with more time, we would have liked to have seen or experienced.

• Sony Wonder Technology Lab - It's a free interactive museum where sci-tech workshops reveal hidden talents; where feature screening inform visitors, sparking more curiosity all the while.
• Central Park Zoo - 6.5 acre zoo with polar bears, penguins and sea lions. Check out the Tisch Children's Zoo where little ones can pet domestic animals, feed them treats, and explore the enchanted forest.
• New Victory Theater - "NY's Theater for kids and families"; 500 seats and 15 productions to choose from at any given time. Circus acts, puppetry, dance performances, plays, and comedy shows. There are always shows to accommodate every age group.
• Alice's Tea Cup - When children want the royal treatment, head to whimsical Alice's Tea Cup. With quirky cakes and an assortment of teas, this shop is the best place in New York to throw a tea part. The water is twice filtered and boiled to 180 degrees precisely, then used to make international teas, ranging from Grank Keemun to Numalighar. Little pirncesses will never forget the eccentricities.
• Bronx Zoo - The Bronx Zoo’s world-class exhibits such as Congo Gorilla Forest, the Wild Asia Monorail, Tiger Mountain, and our newest exhibit, Madagascar!, get you eye-to-eye with massive crocodiles, majestic tigers, and inquisitive gorillas.

Please report back if you have some new experiences. We're ready to go back!

NY, NY part quatre

Sunday is a lovely to day to just relax. Even when we're on vacation, I like to have one day where we just "hang out". I took the kids walking around Edgewater. We went to the Hudson and had a nice "picnic" on the benches there. The kids loved looking across to the skyline of Manhattan and throwing rocks into the river. My husband was going to meeting up with us after his meetings in the city. My sister was kind enough to take the kids to see a movie and my husband and I made reservations at a lovely restaurant in North Bergen, N.J. called Sabor Latin Bistro. It was very good and the ambience was perfect! Try the plaintain dishes and the yucca fries. Yum!

The next day we went to Ellis Island. This is a part of the CityPass and it was great! Since my sister lives on the Jersey side, she drove us to Liberty State Park where we boarded the ferry from there to head to Ellis Island and then the Statue of Liberty. My suggestion is to get here early. The lines are LONG! Again, CityPass comes through for us. They had a separate line for CityPass folks and it was a lot shorter than the other line. The kids really enjoyed the ferry ride. When we got to Ellis Island, it was crowded!!! First stop, the restrooms. Then we were able to walk around and take a look and read about Ellis Island. We were able to search for my husband's grandfather on their passenger search. It's a great time to share with your children the importance of Ellis Island and the Statue of Liberty which is a symbol of hope for immigrants entering New York Harbor.

There is a board that states when the next ferry leaves for the Statue of Liberty. I suggest getting in line about 20 minutes prior to that since it's first come first serve. The Statue of Liberty is.......well.......it's just awesome! Seeing so close and being able to walk in front of it is quite spectacular. At the time, the highest portion of the Statue of Liberty was closed; however, they are open now and one can purchase tickets to head up to the top. Not sure if we would have done that since our youngest's legs probably wouldn't have made it all the way up.

This trip took up a large part of the day. It was fun and educational. As we were driving out of Liberty State Park, I saw the Science Center there. It's called the Liberty Science Center. I didn't know about this previously. Because our day was long and full, the kids told me they were tired (happy words to my ears). So, we skipped the Science Center; however, I think next time, we will go there. There were a lot of school buses parked in front. It looks like a great place to go. I read that there were 3 floors of interactive science activities for the kids. How fun!

New York, New York part deux

Finally, I get to start down memory lane of our trip to New York. As you know, we stayed at my sister's. It was convenient and economical.

First of all, I did my research (I always suggest you do this first to make your trip less stressful) and found out that citypass was the way to go with the sites we wanted to see. The added bonus was that citypass was offering separate entry lines where the wait was going to be less than the normal entry lines.

First stop, The American Natural History Museum near Central Park. The weather was brisk, but sunny and it was Spring Break for most of NYC and other cities throughout the United States. Was I ever happy to have purchased the CityPass. The lines were incredibly long and with 2 young boys, I didn't want to stand in line while they either got bored, cold, and whiny. We walked right in, did the coat check (well worth it!) and started on our discovery of the Museum. I did have our kids watch the movie, "Night at the Museum". This gave them something to connect to while they were walking around the museum. They kept referencing to the movie and really enjoyed their time there. The planetarium was included in our citypass. The boys absolutley loved it and thought it was the best thing for them in the museum. We started early in the morning and spent over 3 hours at the museum. We did bring some snack, but my kids were hungry so we went to the cafe. It was pricey like most places, but with the money we were saving on room and board, I splurged here.

We then walked across Central Park to the Eastside to hit one of my favorite spots, Serendipidity. Yes, we walked the whole way and the boys got a little tired toward the end, but with a few stops here and there in Central Park, they were doing pretty good. If you haven't been to Serendipidity's, then it's a must. Even when I lived there, I would have cravings for their frozen hot chocolate! I knew my boy's would love their foot long hotdogs. Here's the thing........you can't make reservations there and it's a cozy place with seating being a challenge during meal rush hours. However, they will always say it'll be a 45 minute wait, but 9 out of 10 I usually wait for about 20 minutes and we get our table. I don't know how that happens. Maybe most tourists try to wait it out and decide they can't or if they have kids, they don't want to wait and then leave. The line goes from really long to really short fairly quickly there. Do I chance it with my kids? No!! I always have snacks in my backpack just in case they start getting a little hungry. My oldest, who loves hot dogs, had the biggest smile on his face when his foot long dog arrived. The rest of the menu is good! The desserts are huge so think about sharing. Trust me, you and the kids will LOVE this place!!!! It's a must go-to place.

Central Park is huge! There is so much to do there and you won't cover it all in one day if you want to see the sites within the park. I wouldn't advice to hit it in one day anyways. The kids love to play and run around. Let them do that while you sit and relax with the beautiful surroundings.

We did end our day doing just the Natural History Museum and a small part of Central Park. It was enough and the kids were tired. We headed on the subway back to Port Authority and took our bus back to Edgewater. By the way, I wouldn't suggest taking the bus during commute times. It's crazy and I had to keep an eye on our boys. People are everywhere! One of my boys had to go to the restroom which meant public restrooms (ugh!). Surprisingly, the restrooms here were clean. It kind of reminded me of Japan (Tokyo had exceptional public restrooms...hotel-like by our US standards). The buses fill up quickly. I hope that I am passing this information on to help those of you who decide to use any type of public transportation during commute hours in NYC. The only other time it was this busy was late at night. I couldn't believe my eyes, but people were, once again, all lined up for the bus and it looked like people were just getting off of work. You know the saying, "NYC never sleeps" It's true! I guess I shouldn't be too surprised since I would get off of work from the theater and travel home around 11pm at night.

Onto to part trois next!