I figured I'd just transfer my past experiences with my child. Again, I typically don't have my husband around to help me since he is always at the city before me working. In 2003, my son was only 18 mos. and I had to figure out how to keep things light since I was by myself traveling with him.
My List of Thoughts go like this:
- Is there a washer/dryer available? This will dictate how much clothes to bring.
- What is the weather like at our destination city?
- How do I pack my suitcases so that everything will fit and not be deemed "heavy item"?
- How much can I really carry myself with my child onto the plane?
- What do I need to keep my child interested while waiting and flying?
Is there a washer/dryer available? This will dictate how much clothes to bring.
Yes, we have access to a washer/dryer which meant I could bring less clothes since I could clean them easily. If I did not have access, I would have packed more.
What is the weather like at our destination city?
We were going to be in Boston for over 3 mos beginning in June. This meant hot, humid weather according to my research and speaking to people in Boston (I had called a friend who lived there and then spoke to our landlords as well for the weather scoop). What I do enjoy about warmer weather is that it doesn't require as much clothes. However, my son would easily dirty his shirts with food, drinks, mud, etc so I still had to have changes of clothes for him. But, the material for summer clothing is thinner.
How do I pack my suitcases so that everything will fit and not be deemed "heavy item"?
While I was on the road by myself, I would try to figure out ways where I could pack without having to iron everything. What worked best for me was rolling my clothing. Some experts believe that rolling with paper (like how they use tissue paper at the Dept. Stores) helps decrease wrinkled clothing. In all honesty, who had time to do all of that. I'm not Martha Stewart and don't really feel the need to have to do that. So, I just rolled my clothes and it worked nicely. It also seemed to save space. This worked out with my packing my clothes and my son's in our 1 suitcase. Yup, I did it all in one large suitcase.
The items that took up a lot of room were shoes. Not my child's, but mine. With the amount of time we were going to be there, I had to have the sneakers, sandals, dress shoes for various outfits and occasions. I used plastic grocery bags to wrap my shoes and packed them strategically. Since then, my girlfriend has made me shoe bags for each shoe. I love this because I can separate the shoes and know which belongs to the other pair (fabric) and yet pack them in those various "cracks" between clothes.
Other bulky items were my toiletries. We weren't staying in a hotel and so I needed to make sure we had our shampoos, lotions, etc. This is where I used the ziplock bags (see previous post) to insure I wasn't going to have any leaking shampoo on our clothes. It worked beautifully! The trick is to not overstuff the ziplock bags. If you overstuff them, they get too bulky and tough to strategically place between clothes and shoes.
I typically packed my shoes first and then put the clothes around it. However, I found that if I packed the clothes first then I can squeeze the shoes between various clothing items. This just lessened the one blob of bulk that took up room which I needed for other things.
The items that took up a lot of room were shoes. Not my child's, but mine. With the amount of time we were going to be there, I had to have the sneakers, sandals, dress shoes for various outfits and occasions. I used plastic grocery bags to wrap my shoes and packed them strategically. Since then, my girlfriend has made me shoe bags for each shoe. I love this because I can separate the shoes and know which belongs to the other pair (fabric) and yet pack them in those various "cracks" between clothes.
Other bulky items were my toiletries. We weren't staying in a hotel and so I needed to make sure we had our shampoos, lotions, etc. This is where I used the ziplock bags (see previous post) to insure I wasn't going to have any leaking shampoo on our clothes. It worked beautifully! The trick is to not overstuff the ziplock bags. If you overstuff them, they get too bulky and tough to strategically place between clothes and shoes.
I typically packed my shoes first and then put the clothes around it. However, I found that if I packed the clothes first then I can squeeze the shoes between various clothing items. This just lessened the one blob of bulk that took up room which I needed for other things.
How much can I really carry myself with my child onto the plane?
I used my backpack which freed up my arms. I had the carseat for my child's seat. I had a stroller that helped in carrying things to the gate. I also had one carry-on to go below my child's seat in front of him. I tested it out myself and it worked. I would recommend doing a mock run of what you would be carrying yourself from the curb to the airline desk for check-in and from there to security and then gate.
The stroller I used was MacLaren's Volo. It was light and folded up quickly with one hand and one foot. I could break that stroller down in 2 seconds flat right before I entered the plane.
My carseat was FAA approved and I purchased a carrier for it. It had a shoulder strap which I sometimes used on my shoulder, but I typically hung it onto the stroller. I have seen some nowadays with wheels. I love how things evolve in such a short time. Beware***if your child gets up off the stroller, the stroller will tip so be careful.
My carry-on I could put on my shoulder or hang it on the stroller as well. Again, beware if your child gets off the stroller...physics will come into play.
The stroller I used was MacLaren's Volo. It was light and folded up quickly with one hand and one foot. I could break that stroller down in 2 seconds flat right before I entered the plane.
My carseat was FAA approved and I purchased a carrier for it. It had a shoulder strap which I sometimes used on my shoulder, but I typically hung it onto the stroller. I have seen some nowadays with wheels. I love how things evolve in such a short time. Beware***if your child gets up off the stroller, the stroller will tip so be careful.
My carry-on I could put on my shoulder or hang it on the stroller as well. Again, beware if your child gets off the stroller...physics will come into play.
What do I need to keep my child interested while waiting and flying?
My carry-on had a lot of compartments...a lot like my backpack. Those small side pockets are critical for me. Why? Well, as I approached the airline counter for check-in, they would ask for id and all. Here's my lesson. I initially had it in my backpack which meant I had to take the backpack off my back, turn it around, and look for my wallet. So, now my hands are all tied up and I didn't have my had on the stroller. Call me paranoid, but I had to have at least one hand on the stroller my child was sitting in. The carry-on with those side pockets helped because all I had to do was unzip, pull out my information, stick the boarding passes in the same pocket, and zip up....all with one hand. No need to shift and prop one knee up, etc.
The main question is what to bring. I was able to bring liquids back then so my child's drinks were in a reusable cup that had a tight lid on it. However, to be safe, I had the drinks in a ziplock bag to avoid spillage onto other items in my carry-on. Snacks, snacks, snacks are crucial. I used my "tupperware" for those snacks. Remember, when a young child is hungry they don't understand, "just wait a minute", they want it now. I also had my child's old toys that he hadn't played with in a while and I wrapped them in wrapping paper. This was my first time flying with a child and I didn't know how long his attention span was. I had about one wrapped toy per hour. It seemed to suffice. In addition to all of this, the lovely portable DVD player and headphones (Sony makes great ones that fit kids). I had enough DVD's to last the time when we arrived for departure to final destination. I have to say this was my biggest life-saver. I wasn't sure if I was going to need it, but packed it anyways just in case. I only had to use it for an hour out of the 7 hours we were travelling form doorstep to doorstep. There was a moment when my son was getting tired and nothing was appeasing him. Out came the DVD and the zzzzz's followed. I also had his favorite books. All of this went under the seat in front of us for easy access. The overhead bin would have been too much.
My backpack had its typical paraphernalia for a first time mom. I had diapers, wipes, blankie, favorite stuffed toy, wallet, first aid kit (travel size), travel size photo album (my son loved looking at pictures of people he knew), vaseline, hand lotion, hand sanitizer, etc. I put in anything I felt I anticipated needing.
Was it all a success? Well, other than learning about the wallet in the backpack and my son getting knocked in the head by a guitar case at the airport's baggage claim, it went pretty smoothly. Did I use everything I packed? No, but I was sure happy to have it as a just in case. It made my travels a lot less stressful knowing I was armed with "stuff" to keep myself and my son happy.
One final story: The flight attendants kept telling me I couldn't bring the carseat onto the plane and so I had to show them it was an FAA approved carseat. I think they thought that bag was just a big bag and not a carseat. But, what was most appalling was that none of these flight attendants lifted one finger to help me carry something to our seats. They saw I had a little one and was carrying quite a lot. The ones that helped.................other moms. Thank you to those mom's that helped us get seated because they understood. I won't mention the airline and I did complain, but nothing happened. Well, I don't know if anything changed. I never flew that airline again.
Now go travel with your kids. It can be done!
The main question is what to bring. I was able to bring liquids back then so my child's drinks were in a reusable cup that had a tight lid on it. However, to be safe, I had the drinks in a ziplock bag to avoid spillage onto other items in my carry-on. Snacks, snacks, snacks are crucial. I used my "tupperware" for those snacks. Remember, when a young child is hungry they don't understand, "just wait a minute", they want it now. I also had my child's old toys that he hadn't played with in a while and I wrapped them in wrapping paper. This was my first time flying with a child and I didn't know how long his attention span was. I had about one wrapped toy per hour. It seemed to suffice. In addition to all of this, the lovely portable DVD player and headphones (Sony makes great ones that fit kids). I had enough DVD's to last the time when we arrived for departure to final destination. I have to say this was my biggest life-saver. I wasn't sure if I was going to need it, but packed it anyways just in case. I only had to use it for an hour out of the 7 hours we were travelling form doorstep to doorstep. There was a moment when my son was getting tired and nothing was appeasing him. Out came the DVD and the zzzzz's followed. I also had his favorite books. All of this went under the seat in front of us for easy access. The overhead bin would have been too much.
My backpack had its typical paraphernalia for a first time mom. I had diapers, wipes, blankie, favorite stuffed toy, wallet, first aid kit (travel size), travel size photo album (my son loved looking at pictures of people he knew), vaseline, hand lotion, hand sanitizer, etc. I put in anything I felt I anticipated needing.
Was it all a success? Well, other than learning about the wallet in the backpack and my son getting knocked in the head by a guitar case at the airport's baggage claim, it went pretty smoothly. Did I use everything I packed? No, but I was sure happy to have it as a just in case. It made my travels a lot less stressful knowing I was armed with "stuff" to keep myself and my son happy.
One final story: The flight attendants kept telling me I couldn't bring the carseat onto the plane and so I had to show them it was an FAA approved carseat. I think they thought that bag was just a big bag and not a carseat. But, what was most appalling was that none of these flight attendants lifted one finger to help me carry something to our seats. They saw I had a little one and was carrying quite a lot. The ones that helped.................other moms. Thank you to those mom's that helped us get seated because they understood. I won't mention the airline and I did complain, but nothing happened. Well, I don't know if anything changed. I never flew that airline again.
Now go travel with your kids. It can be done!
